Everybody reacts to traumatic events in different ways. A person who has been assaulted may lash out at everyone around her, cry constantly, be afraid to be alone, have difficulty eating and sleeping, or she may withdraw completely and refuse to talk about what has happened to her.

Either way, be prepared to:

• Let her know that, whatever happened, it was not her fault
• Offer to listen whenever she needs to talk
• Listen without judging
• Offer to get her more information.

 

Encourage your friend to talk to a counsellor, doctor, or another trusted adult. Ask if she wants some company; respect her wishes if she says "no" but let her know you are there for her.

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