It is your right to set limits on what happens sexually. It is your right to say no to any sexual activity. Take time to think about what your sexual limits are with certain people and in certain situations.

Be on the lookout for risky situations. If you feel uncomfortable in any situation, or think you may be at risk, leave immediately and go to a safe place. Trust your instincts.

Don’t be afraid to offend the boy or man if you feel he is threatening, manipulating and/or not listening to you. If you are being pressured into sexual activity you don’t want, say how you feel (if you can) and get out of the situation. It is better to have a few minutes of social awkwardness or embarrassment than to go through the pain of a sexual assault.

Keep in mind that alcohol and drugs increase your vulnerability for sexual assault. Use your best judgment.

Go with friends you trust to any large or unfamiliar party, club, or event. Agree ahead of time that you will leave together.